Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith has been married for more than two decades. In that time, the two have lost each other – and found each other again. Since then Pinkett and Smith have opened a “Red Table Talk” on their wedding troubles – but the worst of it started at Pinkett’s birthday party.
Will Smith was happy to create a perfect image for his family
When Smith and Pinkett began dating, he had recently separated from his first wife, Sheree Zampino. Smith did not believe in divorce (Zampino had filed), and when he and Pinkett married, his film career was just beginning to fade away. From there, he wanted to create an image of a perfect family. He became “obsessed” with painting a special public portrait of his family, suggesting that they had never had any problems. But bottom line was that things were starting to settle down.
“I was much more aware of public opinion than Jada,” Smith said on a program of “Red Table Talk.” Pinkett said she was “trying to come up with an idea” that Mrs. Smith had created in her mind, rather than being on her own. And his relationship with his children had problems too. Smith and his eldest son, Trey, were raised for most of Trey’s childhood. And Willow was tired of her father stepping into the scene. After the hit “Whip My Hair”, Willow shook his head in protest.
Smith admitted throwing his wife’s birthday party where he could shine
The pair revealed that it was Pinkett’s birthday party back in 2011, thrown in by Smith, that led to their separation. “She told me that the party is the funniest show of my ego,” Smith said of “Redboard Conversation.”
Smith also pointed out that the party was his “low point” in the couple’s relationship, and that he later “shouted out loud” because of the seriousness of the couple’s marriage. . “To this day I know I was crushed because it was real,” he said of Pinkett’s views on his ego. Smith said Pinkett’s birthday was “not a party for her.” Eventually, the incident prompted the couple to re-evaluate their marriage, which led to their separation.
Pinkett has vowed to make her next 40 years ‘my way’
Pinkett said the party had basically taken her into a deeper look at her relationship and had “confidence” not to tell her husband. “I had to have the confidence to solve [the marriage], ”She said. “The next 40, I have to do it the way I am.”
Smith said the understanding that his marriage was against him was “devastating,” and Pinkett once also realized that as a result of Smith’s attempt to paint the perfect family, her life had been “limited. ” The couple took time apart, when Pinkett had an affair with August Alsina. But the separation was a surprise for their marriage. Today, they are considering talking openly about their marriage as part of the “healing” process, and both have vowed never to get a divorce.